Can you guess which is which?

Here from rainy Granada , Eric is diligently attempting ( the operative word) to move out of the ICU to start his rehab.
He no longer has the feeding tube, all that is left is a touch of oxygen and the IV. Voice is still faint until the hole in the trachea closes completely.
It"s been a little difficult getting him to eat, totally understandable, first and foremost he is scared in case it goes down the wrong way , also his stomach has shrunk, his taste for food is non existent right now , however if he doesn't eat he doesn't gain strength to cough out the stuff in his lungs, his breathing gets poor and he gets anxious... another cycle that I'm sure with time he'll overcome.
So what do mothers and brothers do????
Right on, they never give up! Even if it means to have a little not so nice brotherly exchange of words at meal time, if you know what I mean, or to keep a spoon in hand for a whole half hour until he decides "now it's ok , I can have a little more".
A couple of days this week, while his spirits were up I read to him the comments some of you made on his BLOG ( a brilliant idea of Joao P. Mendes, can't thank him enough) and needless to say he was touched and cried.
One thing is for sure he now knows that he has an army of people rooting for him and we THANK YOU ALL for the part you have and continue to play.
We would be remiss if we didn't mention the unbelievable work of all the Doctors , Nurses and staff of the ICU, not only they brought him back to us , they too rejoice and stand by him day in day out, coaching and cheering him on even to the smallest of his accomplishments, like eating something other than JELLO :), it's not unusual for us to get in for the first visit and to see 8 or more nurses and Doctors chatting him up, yes he did not loose his charm!
That's all for today my friends a huge hug to all of you!